Okay... so one of my friends told me yesterday that if i was a bottom... he would be pursuing me... another one of my friends stated, in a different conversation, that he would love to be with me if i wasn't a bottom... Both were different friends in different conversations.
This caused me to ask some hypothetical questions to a couple of other friends... would you switch to be with someone...
My friend Brian, said this: "relationships need to be best friends, and it needs to be organic" Since sex fades after a year or so, why does the top or bottom matter?
It's always been my personal philosophy that since i don't do everything... if i am in a relationship with someone and they have a need they want filled, and i don't do that. I tell them to get that need filled with someone else then come back to me! My 3 rules are...
1. Tell me about it (don't go sneaking behind my back)
2. Play safe! (no diseases thank you!)
3. Always come home (in otherwords.. don't fall in love with someone else)
Am I wrong? are relationships completely based on biologics... what goes where with who? I know we are all pre-disposed to one sex or another... but when you break it down further, it only smashed the dating pool... I mean... i can see myself in lots of relationships with other TOP guys... who are completely awesome... but 2 tops don't nessecarily make a bottom.
*sigh*
Wednesday, January 9, 2008
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